We will explore the energy of life, the lovability that starts from the instinct , and moves to the expression of the oedipal energy. On the one hand this instinctual power grounds us in the life and on the other hand it paves the way for the love , the contact , sensuality and sexuality. We will explore all the implications of the Oedipal issues, because when this energy is blocked we cannot enjoy and feel satisfied. We will see how it got blocked (around 4 to 6.5 years old) and how we can resolve it, so we can feel the orgasmic reflex in our system.